True Leadership Lifts Others

Principles·March 31, 2026

A leaders influence is measured by the growth of their team. The hallmark of a leader is someone who stays close to their team, understands their strengths and motivations, and makes space for people to step into their full potential.


I think about Victoria and Carol a lot. Back in 2013, I was a UX content strategy contractor at Home Depot corporate, earlier in my career and keen to grow and evolve. When my contract ended, my manager Victoria didn’t just let me leave, she worked hard to convert me into a full-time employee in a new Information Architecture role that required learning entirely different tools. And Carol, a colleague on her way out, carved out her own time to teach me Axure (remember that?!) to give me a strong start in my new position. Nobody asked her to. She just saw someone who needed a hand and extended one.

That was thirteen years ago and it's still my clearest benchmark for what real design leadership looks like. It’s not a title on LinkedIn or a presentation you give at a conference - it’s the innate growth mindset of people who saw an opportunity to invest in someone and build their team, and acted on it in a way that was clear, supportive, participatory and empowering.

Accountability Defines Leadership

I've worked with teams of designers who were talented but adrift, unsure of what was expected of them, unclear on where they were headed, and understandably guarded because of it. I've watched friends and colleagues cycle in and out of roles not because they weren't capable, but because nobody was paying close enough attention to set them up well. And sadly, that's not a pipeline problem or a talent problem - I think it’s a leadership problem. Partially because leadership is increasingly stretched thin, without the time or ability to really stay close to their team.

When I became a manager, it wasn’t because I wanted a bigger title. I wanted the growth and responsibility of being in this honored position of being someone who can help unblock and shape someone’s career like how my most effective managers did for me. The people on your team are making real decisions about their careers, their confidence, and their sense of professional worth based in large part on how you show up for them. That's not something to take lightly.

A few managerial principles I now hold closely: